I’ve seen a lot of videos on anorexia and/or bulimia and then I’ve seen video about men abusing steroids enhance their gym workouts and improve their bodies.
It’s not worth it, okay? If your boyfriend or girlfriend can accept you as you are, they’re the one who is “not healthy”. I’ve been in unhealthy, abusive and controlling relationships and I’ve witnessed other people in those type of relationships as well.
I’m bisexual so that means I’m attracted to both men and women and I’ve had both men and women try to control or change me.
Several years ago, when I was in my mid 20s, I dated a 18 year old guy, I was a little niave because I was turned on by his rebellious “bad boy” side and he had a good sense of humour and despite his immature side, he was intelligent but he wouldn’t sleep with me unless I lost weight.
In 2015, I met a woman who lied to me saying she was 18, she told me that if we were going to stay together, I would have to visit the gym everyday and do a 2 hour workout and become a vegetarian. Luckily I didn’t get in trouble when I found out she was 17, according to the UK law, the age of consent in the UK is 16 plus we never even slept together but wow she was horrible and mean.
The thing is, I may look huge to people but I’m on antidepressants then I’m on a hormone injection and I’m diabetic so I’m definitely going to gain weight. Weight gain can also be genetic because my mother told me that everyone in my father’s family were overweight so when I had realised that my weight could be genetic, I became less paranoid and I’ve seen people on the TV series My 600lbs Life and most of them live in their bedrooms and can’t leave their homes.
Due to orthopaedic reasons, I have use walking aids whenever I leave my home because I’m mobile impaired due to a birth defect, a car accident and an old ankle bone injury and it may slow me down a bit but I’m still able to at least get out and get food or pay my bills at my local shop or pick up my medication from the pharmacist across the street. I do use taxis if I’m going somewhere long distance because I suffer from Myalgic Encephalomyelitis which makes me sleepy so I get scared in case people “pick pocket” me on the bus and I feel more safer on a taxi.
The media makes men and women insecure about their looks. Pornography, modeling, fashion, advertisements, all of these make men and women feel insecure.
Men think because of modeling and fashion, they should have big muscles and thanks to pornography, they also think they should have a bigger penis.
Jonah Falcon, the man from America who has a larger than normal penis size has said because of his large genitalia, he has had trouble finding true love and women only obsess with him because of his “gift” and he felt like a “freak” during his school days.
The truth is most women aren’t bothered about big abs or penis size, only trashy women who are seeking sex only want men like that, women who seeking a long-term relationship with a man want a man who will just treat them right and look after them and love them back.
Same applies with men. Women feel that they should become anorexic and dress trashy to get men to notice or like them but men like women who are all natural. Again, it’s just womanising sex addicts who want women with breast implants, fake tans, fake eyebrows, fake nails and hair extensions but real men who actually want to settle down and have a family want a woman just to love them and be themselves around them, they don’t want Pamela Anderson or Nicki Minaj in their bed, they want a Martha Stewart in bed.
Let’s take a look at Seth Rogen:
He lost weight but he didn’t look that much different because he wasn’t bothered about it. He’s been dating Lauren Miller since 2004 and that was way before his weight loss and some people would think “What would a beautiful young woman like Lauren Miller would want with a man like Seth Rogen?” and the answer to that is… Personality! Seth Rogen is a really nice, funny man. He does charity work and campaigns for Alzheimer’s Disease and he’s all down for LGBT rights so he’s pretty much an easy-going and friendly person and so I’m not surprised that Lauren Miller decided to be with him. Seth Rogen is a cool and nice person and according to his fans, he is also fun to hang out with.
This adorable couple have been married since 2011 and hey, look! Seth doesn’t have any abs either but who cares? He’s awesome!
If you’ve seen the movie “She’s Out of My League” or “Shallow Hal”, you’d probably get the message that looks or appearances mean absolutely nothing about true love.
If you haven’t seen either of these 2 films then maybe now you should and realise that being in love isn’t about who has the best looking body, who makes the most money or who has the biggest genitalia.
True love is about connection, chemistry, you know what I mean… Having something in common and wanting to be together. That’s what real love is about.
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